Author Julie-Allyson Ieron offers devotional thoughts and Bible-based encouragement to overwhelmed caregivers of aging parents and other relatives.
Julie is the author of more than two dozen books, including The Overwhelmed Woman's Guide to ... Caring for Aging Parents. (www.womencareforagingparents.com)
who has my laws and keeps them, he it is who has love for me: and he who has
love for me will be loved by my Father, and I will have love for him and will
let myself be seen clearly by him. John 14:21 BBE
One of my favorite Daddy times was in
our old house, when I was a tiny tot. Daddy commuted downtown, so he was gone thirteen
exhausting hours every day. But he was just a very tall little boy, at heart.
He loved to play. So, no matter how weary he felt, he always was up for a game of
hide and seek while Mom finished preparing supper.
Daddy was creative in his hiding
places. It took me lots of giggles, restarts, and slammed closet doors before
he’d jump out of his hiding place and scare me. More giggles. When I’d hide,
though, odds were better than 50/50 I’d be behind the bathtub curtain. My goal,
you see, wasn’t so much to hide, as to be found. My game was about the tickles,
hugs and laughter of being lifted into Daddy’s arms.
This memory flooded my mind today as I
read John 14: 21 (quoted above). Jesus promised to those who love and obey Him the
greatest gift of all: He’ll reveal
Himself to us. The Greek word could be translated as “disclose.” He’s not
playing hide and seek with us – but the minute we seek Him, He begins to unfold
to us His amazing grace and mercy, not to mention His magnificent, holy
This perplexed the disciples, because Jude
asked, “How is it that you will let yourself be seen clearly by us and not by
the world?” (v. 22). Why do we get to see
You, but the world doesn’t? Why don’t You show Your power and establish Your global
reign right now?
Jesus had a ready answer: “If anyone
has love for me, he will keep my words: and he will be dear to my Father; and
we will come to him and make our living-place with him.” (v. 23).
Just like my moment of being lifted
into Daddy’s arms, our Heavenly Father longs to lift His loving children into
His mighty, compassionate arms. He loves us. And He’s waiting only for us to
love and seek Him. When we do, an amazing relationship of unspeakable joy
Ieron is the author of 37 books, including Gentle
Hugs for Grieving Hearts where she uses modern-day stories and Bible
passage studies to encourage readers to remember with tears and look joyfully toward
God’s ultimate reward.
Psalm 118:28 Thou art
my God, and I will praise Thee: Thou art my God, I will exalt Thee.
Yes, I know that’s quoted in old King James English. With
good reason. It’s part of my inheritance. And if that means it sounds
Shakespearean, then that will simply have to do. Why? Let me tell you the
Mom and I have spent the better part of two years sorting
through a lifetime of papers. Dad’s lifetime. We’ve found snatches of keepers
among the minutiae. Like the calendar page from the day I was born—with the
scrawl: Julie came. The tickets from
our first trip to Disney World. A tiny face shot clipped from an old photo id.
(He couldn’t bear to shred a picture of me, no matter how unflattering.)
But yesterday morning, Mom came down to breakfast with a
treasure in hand. A tiny, leather-bound New Testament and Psalms—pocket sized
book. We read the inscription together—dated January 15, 1951—the week Dad
accepted Uncle Sam’s invitation to basic training for the U.S. Army. It was inscribed
from Dad’s Sunday school teacher, an elder of our old family church. “May God bless
you and keep you.”
In itself that’s a nice gesture—probably one that was
duplicated tens of thousands of times as men and women trudged off to the
Korean conflict in those years. But from the state of the cover and the pages,
this book obviously wasn’t tucked away in a duffle somewhere. It was handled;
it was loved; it was read.
I spent the better part of the next hour flipping through it,
page by page. As I did, I noticed checkmarks on every one. As he read each
chapter, each Psalm, each verse, he checked it off. He read over the course of
many days. Not a one-time thing, but a pattern of consistency. When one phrase
or passage spoke to him, he circled it or starred it. Psalm 118:28 is one of
those that must have been extra special—because he drew a bracket around it.
It didn’t take me long to realize that this Bible I’ve
inherited isn’t just a dusty old book. It’s the testimony of a young life
touched and changed by an up-close God. I have other Bibles of Daddy’s from
later years—years when I knew him and can attest to the fact that he listened
for God’s voice at every turn. But this is from his youth—his first time away
from family and church, when he could have made any number of choices. This
shows the choice he made—he chose Christ.
I love that this passage Daddy marked wasn’t a detached “He
is God” statement. Even non-believers will one day have to acknowledge that
fact. No. Daddy’s verse that got him through the unimaginable hours of
challenging military maneuvers was up-close, heartfelt, personal.
(You, the one I address right now)
(no doubt about it—a surety)
(not someone else’s faith, but the one that lives in this heart You gave me)
(in charge—completely powerful and absolutely present).
·So, I’ll praise
(give honor) and
What a testimony! What a heritage. You are My God, and I will praise and exalt You. A great
hand-me-down I’m proud to keep close to my heart today and always.
Julie-Allyson Ieron is the author of 37 books, including a
Bible Study and Devotional combo titled Gentle
Hugs for Grieving Hearts that releases this fall. http://womencareforagingparents.com